Into the Unknown: My Essential Reading List
27 March 2020
Wow, if ever we all needed inspiration and positive vibes, it’s now! I am indeed (hashtag) “blessed”, yet severely impacted like the rest of us. It’s a weird time to be on earth.
My Inspirational Speaking peers and I make a living, for the most part, from events and conferences, both locally and abroad, and I am sure many of them have experienced the same cold sweat I have, when looking at the number of audiences I was set to engage with the next few months, now all postponed or canceled. My calendar is a flat line. Zero. Zip. The bumper months and bookings once firmly in place, all stripped overnight to nil. Yoh!
As speakers of this genre, we are brought in to inspire, to reassure, to provide perspective and direction in challenging times. I preach resilience; teach grit and a positive mindset. I facilitate teams to navigate change, and a multitude of challenges, when the going is as tough as it can be.
Yet here we are, some top inspirers, on the cusp of the unknown, feeling all the uncertainty, trepidation and mortality that I feel. With families to feed and dreams, plans and goals of our own, it’s time to practice what we preach, step up, inspire and motivate, because the lessons we have learnt and the messages we share are REAL, derived from ‘impossible’ situations – not dissimilar to where we are today.
I have been tested before, in excruciating circumstances, and I have passed.
This is no different and there is opportunity in the crisis to look at this amazing mess, and to channel the fear in a new positive direction.
If you are looking for inspiration in the Lockdown, here are some of the books and platforms that have played a significant role in my journey and helped shape my “WHY”:
A pioneer who has taught me tons, most importantly the value and necessity of preparation, preparation, preparation! I remember reading Lewis’s first book “Achieving the Impossible”. He mentions me as a younger swimming just starting my adventures, attempting to keep up with him for a session within a staged swim around the Cape Peninsula. My lack of preparation that day was obvious, and there were some valuable lessons learned.
In this lockdown and indefinite timeline, it is reasonable to feel overwhelmed. Lewis helped me to face the unknown with consideration and strategy. When we create our own stepping stones, the path opens up, and we are less likely to be blind sighted.
Both Lewis’s books: Achieving the Impossible and 21 Yaks and a Speedo can be found on Amazon.com and Takealot.com. You can also follow him on his very active Twitter account: https://twitter.com/LewisPugh
Lee Den Hond
I was so moved by this positive lady when attending her talk and seeing the hardships overcome to achieve the greatness she achieved. Lee’s outlook again reinforced my believe that one’s attitude towards a challenge is a deal breaker or maker. Her book ‘What Happens When You Say YES’ is available at Takealot.com, Exclusive Books and Amazon.com – highly recommended.
It’s hard to see over the massive hurdles we face daily. They beat us down and work tirelessly to steer one into negativity – a quickly accelerating spiral. Physically working to change your attitude when the going is as tough as it can possibly be, will in turn change your life.
Pete Van Kets
Long before I ever thought of going into inspirational speaking, I watched Peter speaking on stage at the incredible SalesGuru events by Mark Keating and Brett Wood. I marveled at the deep emotions I felt as I listened to how this humble adventurer, set and achieved his impossible goals. It especially struck home when he spoke about his family, and the limitless love he felt for them and how he drew from that in the toughest times. The important things in life.
I will take our current watershed times to re-evaluate my dreams and marry them with my family’s. Time in my home and new routines create the space to understand my role in their journey too, and to identify opportunities where my support will be relevant.
His first book: The Eighth Summit is available on Takealot, and as a download off his site: https://petervankets.co.za – Rumour has it there is another one in the making…watch this space.
Although I have known Zolani for many years, it’s only recently I’ve been privileged to share a stage with her. Not in a musical capacity (that would be EPIC), but rather on the inspirational speaking circuit, where she shared her message on the importance of our own stories and how they can be a catalyst for real change in all aspects of our lives and society.
What is happening to all of us right now; Lockdown, is a forced chapter in all our stories. Think how to make it the most exciting, positive chapter in your own ‘book’ of life.
Zolani has a cool Instagram channel, where you will find music, inspiration and Pop-up Live performances during the lockdown, well worth the follow: https://www.instagram.com/zolanimahola/
He has an ability to put projects of an impossible nature into place, and forced me to look at challenges and planned expeditions very differently. He set the bar higher than anyone I know in his genre and we can never underestimate the impact that he has had on the people who follow his adventures and hear him speak.
Chris embodies the true South African spirit found in strength, bravery and discovery. Our nation has the ability to overcome vast spaces of unknown.
I thoroughly enjoyed his book “Stoked”, available on Kindle and Paperback on Amazon.com. Aim high!
Inspired me with his die-hard attitude and positive outlook into something which absolutely terrifies me; losing the use of all, or part of our bodies through injury or illness. Hearing his story LIVE, and then reading his book, completely reinforced so many of my own beliefs and attitudes, and helped me take them to the next level. Absolutely wonderful messages for everybody, especially at this very difficult time, Joey has proper Grit.
Our bodies are the vessels that will sail us through this quagmire of disease. This is the time to get in touch with our physical selves. Take steps to feel our hearts beat and our lungs working. Whatever your physical challenge, take time everyday to look inside and give your inner self the mental attention to make it strong.
His Book: From Para to Dakar is impossible to put down, you can buy his book on his website: https://www.joeyevans.co.za/product/fromparatodakar-book/ or on digital download at your favourite online portal.
Lastly, Arafat Gatabazi has not written a book, but his keynote is developing into a powerful message that should be heard by everyone around the world.
There is a great difference between choosing to take on an epic challenge, and being forced into one. At an extremely young age, Arafat was forced to flee his home in the DRC and make his way on foot to South Africa, with a thin chance of finding refuge with his Aunt in Cape Town. His Journey has seen him rise above impossible odds, grabbing every opportunity to find his way out of homelessness, and not only survive, but to thrive.
Watch the incredible rise of an extraordinary man through his instagram account: @arafatswim – and if you can get to hear him on stage, jump at the opportunity!
To everyone doing their bit to protect the most vulnerable in our societies by staying home and socially distant, you are all playing your part to limit the impact of this disaster. What we do now will have a stamp on history, and be the blueprint on how to behave for generations to come. To steal a meme from my FaceBook feed which gave me some perspective:
Your grandparents were sent to fight in World War 2. We’ve been asked to wash our hands and sit on the couch!
I will personally be using this time to start work on my own book. A project I have spent many months procrastinating, but have come to the end of the line of excuses.
Stay safe, stay home, and read a book!